Let’s Compare Assholes

Assholes come in various shapes and sizes. In the course of my 14 (& 1/2)  years in this industry, I’ve come across more than my share of assholes. However, in the last year and a half, since leaving iFriends on bad terms over a revenue dispute after discovering nothing but discrepancies in (their version of) my earnings reports, I’ve been harrassed daily in my live room on Streamate. You may think the logical approach would be to report this to the site. I did. Several times. Direct to one of the owners, in fact. Perhaps the site doesn’t have the capability to stop this because they simply cannot track the ip (or ip’s) of the person doing this. This person has posted threats in my room, as well. Nothing came of the reports I filed for those either. So, the harrassment continues. This person continues to get away with what they are doing.

Here are some screenshots of the abuse that I am forced to put up with on a daily basis. It’s all the same person.

This person likes to call me “fat” because they think that if they say it enough, it will eventually happen. I’m willing to bet (everything I own) that I’m actually slimmer than that person. Not that it even matters nor that I even care!

Here’s a screenshot demonstrating the opportunistic side of my psycho harrasser, waiting for one word out of my mouth to pounce on and blow completely out of proportion. Note how the other members are calm and pleasant. If I were being such a bitch, why wouldn’t the whole room be complaining?

A similar instance when a member tells me to lower my rate to a ridiculous low number. I told him not to insult me. In steps the vulture, having stalked their prey for several minutes before lashing out, once again, in psycho mode:

There are plenty more screenshots I have, but I don’t have the time (nor desire) to post them all here. It would take months. One more though, because I feel that this one says it all and will be the one that I will point to when someone should finally decide to look into this, once and for all. Whether that be the site itself, an investigative reporter or law enforcement. This will stop. I will catch this person and then whatever happens from there, is the result of their own doing. They must have a lot to lose by me being online. I don’t take this personally at all. Nothing wrong with being a size large but why call someone “fat” if they’re not? Why try to run someone offline, for a year and a half, first with threats, then with verbal abuse? If they gain some sick pleasure out of this, my hundreds of blocks on them should have stopped them long ago. It simply wouldn’t be worth their time. But, for some reason, it is. I don’t indulge them, only block them when they type something rude. They are getting nothing from me.

The person wrote this on Formspring just last month: